Out of Control: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives

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Gary Frist

NewsRescue– Headlines in Nigerian papers today is the story of aย  46-year-old unemployed man, who on October 7, at Agbado in Ogun state of Nigeriaย  was arrested for allegedly killing his wife by throwing her into a pit latrineย  over a domestic misunderstanding. Thatโ€™s a raw dudu pit!

This is just the latest case in the chronic saga of Nigerians killing theirย  wives at home and abroad.

The many spontaneous killings, unlike honor killings which are most rampantย  in Nations around the world, from Asia to South America, can more accurately beย  considered as crimes of passion, but some disturbingly are executed with scaryย  premeditation and careful planning.

NewsRescue investigated the trends and distribution of these murdersย  and found some thought and discussion provoking trends.

Pit Latrine: Traditional non water toilet

Nigeria with a population of 150 million, is Africaโ€™s most populous nation.ย  The country has over 500 ethnic groups, but of these, the three largest andย  loudest, are the Hausaโ€™s up North, The Yorubaโ€™s in the South west and the Igboโ€™sย  in the south east.

Cases of wife murder like the one above are almost exclusively relegated toย  the southern ethnic groups, with the Igboโ€™s being culprit in 9 in 10 cases.

What makes this sad habit so common among the Igboโ€™s has been a topic of hotย  debate for many years in Nigerian internet fora. Some have attributed theย  problem to an Igbo culture that places a humongous bride price on women, andย  after the men cough out fortunes to marry, they tend to regard their spouses as โ€˜propertyโ€™, they have bought, hence having a very low tolerance during domesticย  conflict.

A commentator reacting passionately, said, โ€˜only people who do not know Godย  will do suchโ€™, they have abandoned God, this is why!โ€™

We are unable to test and correlate religion type or the lack of it withย  crime in general and domestic violence and spousal murder in particular.

John Onwuka in orange prison jumpsuit

In an internet article in 2008, โ€œNigerian Men Are Killing Their Wives in America now, โ€ on aย  popular Nigerian blog, the Linda Ikeji blog, several Nigerians, almostย  exclusively Igbo were listed, with pictures, for murdering their wives inย  America.

The names included Kelechi Charles Emeruwa, Theophilus Ojukwu, Johnnyย  Omorogieva, John Onwuka and Michael Collins Iheme. Nigerians reportedly haveย  peculiar names that allow easy, near accurate identification by ethnicity. Theย  men ranged from 40-50 years and the typical story was a man who brought his wifeย  to the United States, she trained as a nurse, made good money, and later eitherย  separated or feeling belittled, the man suddenly went to her abode and killedย  her crudely.

After coming across a shocking article on a Nigerian forum, NigerianVillageSquare, we ran an internet search to see theย  2012 rates of wife killings and check for any trends in occurrence.

Without question, the United States has some of the highest results for โ€˜manย  kills wifeโ€™, several cases every month.

When we narrowed our search to โ€˜Nigeria man kills wifeโ€™, we found severalย  incidences of Nigerian episodes and these still presented with the popularย  ethnic trend of being almost exclusively relegated to the Igbo south easternย  ethnic group.

Nigeria Major Ethnic Groups : BBC

The realities for the women are sad and frightening to imagine. Domesticย  violence data indicates that murders are a tiny fraction and minute glimpse atย  the actual scale of domestic violence within societies. To each domestic murderย  case reported, there are 100s more non lethal spouse battering episodes.

We at NewsRescue hope that our publication will prompt activeย  discussion into the possible social or cultural etiology of this abusiveย  pathology and energize women protective agencies to study any cultural causes ofย  the levels of violence seen, with aim at possibly addressing them and protectingย  the thousands of victims.

Here is a collection of recent cases of Nigerians killing their wives thisย  2012. Two cases are reportedly Yoruba, the rest are the Igbo group ofย  Nigeria:

Mathiasย  Eze, Ex-commissioner Kills Wife Over Stew

When Mathias Eze of Umu-Aji village in Umuida,ย  and Patricia Ossai of Imufu, both in Igbo-Eze North Local Government Area ofย  Enugu State got married, little did Patricia know that her heartthrob would endย  her sojourn on earth in the most gruesome manner 16 years after their maritalย  union.

But on Saturday, July 21, 2012, Mathias, a formerย  Commissioner in the Enugu State Independent Electoral (ENSIEC), tragically endedย  the union that had produced six lovely children with an alleged gunshot over hisย  wifeโ€™s failure to prepare stewed rice for the dayโ€™s supper.

The father of the deceased, Elder Alphonsusย  Ossai, now a shadow of himself, told Sunday Sun the tale of his daughterโ€™sย  forced death as was narrated to him by the late Patriciaโ€™s 15-year-old daughter,ย  Uju, who witnessed the incident that night. Read moreโ€ฆ

Nigeria:ย  Man Kills Wife in Imo

By Johnkennedy Uzoma, 2 September 2012

Owerri โ€” Tragedy occurred yesterday Ihitta Ogadaย  in Emekuku community of Owerri North local government area of Imo State when anย  aged man identified as Mr Vitalis Okere killed his wife and escaped.

The suspect according to information available toย  Sunday Trust immediately ran to unknown place after the incident to avoid beingย  mobbed by angry youths. According to information, youths of the community onย  hearing the ugly incident attempted to lynch the man but were prevented by someย  villagers.

The suspect according to sources hails fromย  Mbaise and is a father of three with two wives.

It was said the deceased was the second wife. Theย  first wife died many years back.

The remains of the deceased have been depositedย  in an unknown mortuary while the youth of the community are calling forย  justice.

The Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO), Mrย  Vitalis Onugu confirmed the incident saying investigations to unravel theย  circumstances had commenced. He told Sunday Trust that the investigation wouldย  enable the command to get to the remote causes of the ugly incident.

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SCANDAL:ย  Top Nollywood Actor Kills Wifeโ€ฆConfesses In Kuje Prison

Rich Oganiru

Story by Nigeriafilms.com Last Updated:ย  Thursday, August 30, 2012

According to what National Enquirer magazineย  reported, Rich Oganiru`s name might not really ring a bell again but he`s one ofย  Nollywood`s very good actors and stakeholders. In fact, he prides himself as oneย  of the pioneering members of the Actors Guild of Nigeria and has starred in overย  300 movies.

Please look at his pictures again if you`re stillย  in doubt because he`s presently battling a murder scandal for his allegedย  involvement in the complicity leading to the death of a very rich Abuja basedย  multimillionaire businesswoman believed to be his wife.

The deceased, National Enquirer gathered reliablyย  is not his first wife, the first wife also died mysteriously years back and heย  was in a very poor state of life before he met the Abuja based multimillionaireย  who transformed his life in a matter of months. Read Moreโ€ฆ

Igbo Man Kills His Wife In Ghana โ€“ ModernGhana

Wonders, they say, shall never ceased. Despite theย  all the effort of the Federal Government to redeemed the badly smashed image ofย  Nigerians across the sea, a 26-year-old Nigerian man, Nathaniel Udama Edu, isย  being held by the Mile 7 Police at Achimota in Accra, for the suspected murderย  of his girlfriend, Matilda Asante, 19, a senior high school graduate at Southย  Afankor in the early hours of Monday.

The body of the deceased was found in the neighbourhood, wrapped in a bedย  sheet and her legs tied, while her head was covered in a black polytheneย  bag.

Narrating the incident in Accra, the Crime Officer of the Mile 7 Policeย  Station, Assistant Superintendent of Police (ASP), Mr Henry Agbeve, said aroundย  7:30am last Monday the body of the deceased was found on the compound of anย  adjoining house in the Ga West municipality, lying in a supine position.

According to him preliminary investigations conducted indicated that the bodyย  was thrown into that house after the act with the legs tied, the head coveredย  with a polythene bag and the rest of her body wrapped in a bedsheets. Read Moreโ€ฆ

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Nigeria: Man,62, Remanded for Alleged Murder of Wife

By Batholomew Madukwe, 22 August 2012

A 62 year-old man, Christian Agbaga has been remanded in prison custody by aย  Yaba Magistrate court, the alleged murder of his wife following her purportedย  refusal to grant him sex in the night.

Wife of the accused, Regina Agbaga, was said to have been strangled by herย  husband at their 10, Ligali Street, Ajegunle, Lagos home. She allegedly held herย  neck on their matrimonial bed. The accused (Agbaga) is facing a murder chargeย  under section 221 of the Criminal Code Laws of Lagos State of Nigeria 2011.

Refusing to the plea of the accused, the presiding Magistrate, Mrs. S. K.ย  Matepo, ordered that he should be remanded in prison custody at Kirikiri, Lagosย  and urged the prosecutor to duplicate his file for the DPPโ€™s advice. The matterย  was adjourned till 15 October for the DPPโ€™s report. Read More...

Man kills son, mutilates wife overย  alleged infidelity

April 20, 2012 by Eniola Akinkuotu

A washerman, Henry Nnamdi, hasย  allegedly killed his one-year-old son, Chukwuebuka, in order to spite his wife,ย  whom he accused of having an extra-marital affair.

PUNCH Metro learnt that Henry also used a hot pressing iron to burn his wife,ย  Mercy, and stabbed her repeatedly in order to force her to confess to theย  allegation.

A police source said 40-year-old Henry had been suspecting that his wife wasย  having an amorous relationship with his father for a while.

Our correspondent learnt that on Easter Sunday around 2am, Mercy turned downย  her husbandโ€™s request for sex resulting in an argument between the couple.

A reliable police source told PUNCH Metro, โ€œHenry and his wife live togetherย  in a room with their only child at 3, Lambe Street, Ago Palace Way, Lagos.

โ€œThe suspect had been suspicious of his wifeโ€™s movement and on that very day,ย  he came back home late in the evening and was ironing his customersโ€™ clothes onย  the floor while his wife and son were on the bed.

โ€œHis wife and son were both naked because the room was poorly ventilated.ย  Henry then told his wife he wanted to have sex with her but she refused.

โ€œHenry was infuriated by her refusal and saw it as a confirmation of hisย  suspicion. He grabbed the pressing iron and started inflicting burns all overย  Mercyโ€™s body, including her private part, asking her to confess.โ€

PUNCH Metro learnt that the suspect immediately grabbed his son and fled.ย  However, the corpse of his son was later found in the compound. Read Moreโ€ฆ

Nigeria: Jealous Husband Sets Wife On Fire forย  Accepting Wine From Another Man At Party

By Bartholomew Madukwe, 26 September 2012Love is said to be theย  fire of life that neither consumes nor purifies; but for 35-year-old Janethย  Odehgbe, hers was a different case as she has been set on fire by her husbandย  following disagreement over her collecting a cup of wine from another man duringย  a party they both attended.

Recounting her ordeal in the hand of her 39-year-old husband, Mr Kehindeย  Adesanmoye, Janeth told Crime Alert that on September 11, 2012 around 10 pm, herย  husband poured petrol on her as she was preparing Indomie noodles for a customerย  and fire caught her immediately. She was nearly consumed by the fire but forย  passers-by that rescued her.

She said, โ€œI saw him coming towards me, as he got nearer, he ordered myย  customer to leave and as I tried to run for my dear life, he poured petrol on meย  and fire caught up with me immediately. Passers-by rescued me and ran after himย  to fight him, but immediately they noticed it was him, they all went to theirย  various homes. Then some of them took me to the Police station and from there Iย  was taken to Peaceful Convalescent Center, Alhaji Obe Street, Ejigbo Lagos.โ€

Janeth, who hails from Isoko area of Delta state and earns her living fromย  selling cooked Indomie along Ikotun roundabout, claimed she was illegallyย  married to Adesanmoye (popularly called Ogunlade) after divorcing her firstย  husband.

Trouble was said to have started for the duo on September 8, 2012 whenย  Adesanmoye and his wife went for a naming ceremony of a friend who stays besideย  their residence at 22, Olaoluwa Street, Abaranje, Ikotun. โ€œAs we got to theย  party, my friends who were also present were hailing me, calling me โ€˜Indomieโ€™, because I was known for selling Indomie. I was invited to sit on the chairs theyย  have organized for friends. Adesanmoye was sitting right beside me. Read Moreโ€ฆ

Man Kills Wife in the Presence of Hisย  11 Year-old Sonโ€ฆ Says he had โ€œMental Problemsโ€

Posted on Friday, September 7th, 2012 at 1:42 PM

By Adeola Adeyemo

The last time the Nigerian media was agog with news of a man who hadย  allegedly butchered his wife, it was greeted with a loud public outcry.

When pictures of her lifeless and dismemberedย  body hit the internet, it generated a slew of human right actions, walks andย  advocacy against domestic abuse.

It was a gruesome sight. Deep knife cuts, blood all over, her gorging eyesโ€ฆ it was all too much too bear. In fact, it wonโ€™t be out of place to say thatย  Nigerians have not yet recovered from the shock of Titi Arowoloโ€™s death.

And now, a year later, another case of a wife killer has been uncovered inย  Enugu state. Graphic pictures of her lifeless body showing deep cuts with bloodย  oozing out have circulated over the internet stirring another outcry.

The Enugu State Police Command, on Thursday September 6th, 2012 paradedย  Sunday Eze for allegedly butchering his wife with a machete in Nsukka, Enuguย  State. Read Moreโ€ฆ

Manย  kills wife over food: Peter Odion tried to stop his wife from eating the food heย  prepared after she refused to cook

A middle aged man, Peter Odion, has become aย  guest of the Lagos State Police Command for allegedly killing his wife, Ifeomaย  Ohalele Odion, for eating his food.

The incident occurred at their residence at 2,ย  Olushola Close, Abule Taylor, Abule Egba, Lagos State.

Chiweiko Ohalele, a sister of the deceased whoย  was living with the couple but was not at home when the tragedy occurred, said: โ€œI was in my village meeting on Sunday afternoon when one of our neighboursย  called me on phone to meet them at a hospital at Abule Egba over my sisterโ€™sย  condition. When I got there, I met my sister in an unconscious state with bloodย  dripping from her head and face. In fact, she could not neither talk norย  recognise me.

I begged the doctor on duty to transfer her toย  the General Hospital at Ilepo because her condition was very bad. And heย  obliged; but before she could be attended to at the General Hospital, my sisterย  died. When I confronted her husband who was also in the hospital on whatย  transpired between him and my sister, he said he fought my sister for trying toย  eat the eba (garri) he made for himself.โ€

According to her, the suspect claimed that whenย  they returned from church, he told his wife to prepare eba for him and herย  daughter, but she refused, claiming she had headache. Peter allegedly went aheadย  and prepared the eba; only for the wife to get up to eat the food.

A fight then broke out between the couple whenย  Peter insisted his wife must not eat the food.

In the course of the fight, Peter pushed her andย  she hit her head on a hard object inside the room and fainted. He raised anย  alarm and neighbours assisted him to rush the unconscious woman to theย  hospital.

โ€œI did not intend to kill her because we have notย  had any disagreement before the tragic incident happened,โ€ he said. โ€œI pray thatย  God would forgive me.โ€ Read Moreโ€ฆ

Man accused of killing girlfriend for denyingย  him sex

Thursday, March 8, 2012

Edith Nwokolo, who resided at 94, Mushin Road, opposite Ire-Akari Roadย  Junction, Isolo, Lagos State, was visited by her estranged lover, Amaechiย  Uchenna, on February 23 around 10pm. By 11pm, Nwokolo had died in mysteriousย  circumstances while Uchenna was still in the apartment. Nwokoloโ€™s family membersย  alleged that the victim was strangled by Uchenna after a failed attempt to rapeย  her. But the police said the cause of her death had not yet been ascertained asย  they were still awaiting the autopsy report. The suspect is being detained atย  the Lagos State Criminal Investigation Department, Yaba. Read Moreโ€ฆ

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Horror: Man Kills Step-Son โ€˜for telling wife of his plot to kill herโ€™

Tue, 03/07/2012 โ€“ 2:10am

A middle-aged man, Robert Anyanwu of Onunwankwo, Umuhuali community inย  Ishielu Local Government Area of Ebonyi State is now in police net for allegedlyย  killing his step-son for revealing to his mother plot by him to murder her.

Anyanwu, 45, was alleged to have slaughtered his step son, Chigozie Anyanwu,ย  a seven-year old primary one pupil, for daring to expose his evilย  intentions.

The Ebonyi State Police Public Relations Officer, Mr. Sylvester Igbo, aย  deputy superintendent of police (DSP) confirmed the incident, when contacted byย  our reporter.

โ€œIt is confirmed that a man killed his son, it is a confirmed story,โ€ he saidย  and noted that the police were investigating the matter.

Sources from Umuhuali community revealed that Anyanwu, on June 15, 2012,ย  hacked the boy down with a machete on their road to the farm and buried him in aย  shallow grave in the forest.

The source noted that Anyanwu had, prior to the incident, confided in the boyย  that he was going to kill his mother within the week for undisclosedย  offences.

Robert warned the boy against revealing the information to anybody,ย  especially his mother. Read Moreโ€ฆ

Man Kills Girlfriend Over Phone in Calabar

July 11, 2012 in

A youngman, Lawrence Ufan Ette, has allegedly struck his girlfriendย  to death with a stone during a fight in the victimโ€™s house over her phone.

The 23-year old girl, Miss Roseline Ijeoma Christopher, was allegedly killedย  by her boyfriend over her phone which he allegedly stole from her room when heย  was on a visit. Miss Dorothy Bassey, the landlady of 13, Academy Street,ย  Calabar, where Ijeoma and her siblings along with their aged mother live,ย  told P.M.NEWS that Ette and Ijeoma had been in a relationshipย  for a while but Ijeomaโ€™s mother told Ette to stop coming to their house becauseย  of his bad behaviour towards her daughter.

However, according to Bassey, against her instruction, Ette kept sneaking inย  to see Ijeoma, especially at night. Read Moreโ€ฆ

The man who set his wife ablaze

Naomi joins the list of Nigerian women murdered by theirย  husbands
Article | | Byย  Patience Ogbo

Naomi Chidiebere 24, was the happiest woman in the world when sheย  married Dick Chidiebere, 34, at the Jehovahโ€™s Witness church at Ijegun inย  November 2011.

Sadly, Naomi who was the envy of the single ladies at the wedding is lying inย  the morgue because her husband allegedly set her ablaze following a quarrel.

The incident happened on February 10, 2012 at the coupleโ€™s four bedroomย  residence in Ijegun barely three months after the couple exchanged their weddingย  vows.

Naomi, who narrated how her husband set her ablaze on her hospital bed beforeย  she gave up the ghost, said on that fateful day,ย  said Dick, a sailor,ย  came back home late in the night drunk and she challenged him on his drinkingย  habit, which according to her infuriated him as he beat her up and later rushedย  into the store where they kept petrol for the generating set and poured it onย  her as she ran into the closet to hide from his beating. Read Moreโ€ฆ

Topic: Man sets Pregnant wife, children ablaze.

From PETRUS OBI, Enugu Sunday, October 02, 2011

A middle-aged man, Mr Ndubuisi Egeonu, yesterday in Enugu attempted to killย  his pregnant wife and his two male children when he locked them up in hisย  barbing shop and set the place on fire.

The incident which happened at about 11: am at No. 61 Mount Street, Idawย  River in the Awkunanaw area of Enugu was said to have come as a surprise to bothย  the pregnant woman and neighbours.

Egeonu popularly known as Sagay, and who is now on the run, reportedlyย  arrived his shop that morning and requested the wife to escort him to a fillingย  station to buy fuel.

When they returned he reportedly tried to drag one of his female neighboursย  from a nearby shop, claiming she was indebted to him. The effort proved futileย  as neighbours intervened.

An eyewitness who described Egeonu as an erratic character that regularlyย  beat his wife narrated how they were attracted to the container which served asย  his shop.

โ€œIt was when the fire started that we rushed to the shop and heard voicesย  inside that we realized what happened. He actually tied his wifeโ€™s hands, pouredย  petrol into the shop, locked the shop and put the place on fire.

โ€œWe rushed and broke the door but by then the pregnant woman and her childrenย  had been severely burnt.โ€ Read Moreโ€ฆ

SHOCKER ! PASTOR KILLS WIFE OVER BED GYMNASTICS

Story by AKINNAGBE AKINTOMIDE/NIGERIAFILMS.COM

Last Updated: Saturday, March 24, 2012

A senior Pastor of United Evangelical Church,Rev. Sunday Alfa has murderedย  his wife,a mother of 4 for refusing him sex.

The wife,Mrs. Rose Alfa was murdered in the Mission House at about 3am inย  Igojo,Ubali Village near Okene in Kogi State.

We learnt that before the woman gave up the ghost,she had confessed to aย  Policeman,who was taking her to the hospital that she did no wrong to her pastorย  husband and that the man came in the night in the room she was sleeping toย  demand for sex,but she refused because she gave birth to her last baby inย  October last year through cesarean section and the doctor asked her to abstainย  from sex for some time.

We gathered that the woman had divorced the pastor and went to Benin City toย  live with her brother,Mr. Alex Abah.

Four years later,the pastor went to meet the wife relations to beg forย  forgiveness and pleaded with them to allow his wife come back to him because heย  had been promoted to Senior Pastor and it was compulsory for him to bring backย  his wife before they could effect the promotion.

The wifeโ€™s relations agreed and allowed her to go back to the husband.

It was during his stay with the wife that the pastor eventually murdered herย  over sex.

SHOCKER ! PASTOR KILLS WIFE OVER BED GYMNASTICS
Story by AKINNAGBE AKINTOMIDE/NIGERIAFILMS.COM
A senior Pastor of United Evangelical Church,Rev. Sunday Alfa has murdered his wife,a mother of 4 for refusing him sex.
The wife,Mrs. Rose Alfa was murdered in the Mission House at about 3am in Igojo,Ubali Village near Okene in Kogi State.
We learnt that before the woman gave up the ghost,she had confessed to a Policeman,who was taking her to the hospital that she did no wrong to her pastor husband and that the man came in the night in the room she was sleeping to demand for sex,but she refused because she gave birth to her last baby in October last year through cesareanย  section and the doctor asked her to abstain from sex for some time.
We gathered that the woman had divorced the pastor and went to Benin City to live with her brother,Mr. Alex Abah.
Four years later,the pastor went to meet the wife relations to beg for forgiveness and pleaded with them to allow his wife come back to him because he had been promoted to Senior Pastor and it was compulsory for him to bring back his wife before they could effect the promotion.
The wifeโ€™s relations agreed and allowed her toย  go back to the husband.
It was during his stay with the wife that the pastor eventually murdered her over sex.
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